Overall, the message of On Bitches, is the fact that a man may not hope to productively engage in discussion with women and those neutered males who have been hatched from the eggs laid by the queens of non-fathered households. If you are the son of such a bitch as described in this brief account, you must distance yourself from the one that has as her goal your emasculation as a way of expressing her bitterness against your absentee father.
Nigel's mother looked like a professional prize-fighter, so may have been correct in blaming the absence of her mate on his choice. In any case, she struts the earth with a mean attitude. At about age 10, Nigel and Benson were playing video games in the basement when mama walked down stairs, cursing like a sailor and accusing Nigel of making a mess in the living room upstairs. Nigel began to explain the mess and his mother, easily twice his size and known to fight men in the middle of the street, balled up her fist and punched him in the eye.
He then finished saying, "It was your boyfriend that made that mess in the living room."
As his eye swelled up, she stalked of up the stairs without even an apology. To this day she speaks to him in the cruelest fashion, calling him names and drawing attention to his weak sense of masculine identity, which she herself scrubbed from his being before it could form.
As one might imagine, arguing with Nigel or his mother could not be a profitable exercise, especially in stressful circumstances.
Do not engage verbally with bitches or their spawn and expect anything other than emotive escalation.