What can we do when one oppressed minority oppresses another oppressed minority?
In the case of gay paleface men in Baltimore we might recommend being more selective about that strange guy you are going to have sex with. In Baltimore County groups of three armed black men have been posing as gay men and soliciting gay ghost-men on the Grinder gay dating application. They are using their girlfriend's and mother's apartment buildings and operating out of the laundry room, essentially a hidden public space.
If you must grind—oh, hell, don't be careful at all, just meet up and make room on this overcrowded planet.